Eugene Diordiychuk: "In America, people love me for the qualities for which we have in the country of hate"

Maria SYRCHINA, "FACTS"

04/21/2012

Eugene Diordiychuk - one of the most famous Ukrainian erotic models on the Internet, the favorite of readers of "Playboy." About what was the way Jenya, before you won the title of the most desirable women, on the version of the magazine, "FACTS" wrote about two years ago . And not so long ago, Eugene came out of the erotic underground, became a member of the "Bachelor 2".
But the girl fall in love, she fell in love and married a very
different bachelor contender for the role of the protagonist third gear.
It was like this: first, Jenya went to the draft contract, but before
his meeting with those for whom was supposed to fight, suddenly head
over heels in love ... in the other.
Participation in the transmission was a real challenge for her
feelings: on one hand the prince, for whom fighting 25 beauties, and
with another - a gentle musician from America, who so unexpectedly
appeared in her life.
From the project on the channel STB, which according to the rules can
participate only unmarried girls and nevlyublennye, Jenya was gone, and
while all and sundry discussing her behavior - envy, admiration,
indignation, - she enjoyed a long-awaited women's happiness and love,
the handsome musician. Today, Jenya and her husband live in Las Vegas.
For Skype model told this newspaper a fabulous story of his love,
occurred in spite of life circumstances, and became her salvation after a
severe depression.

- Jenya, why did you decide to seek his fortune on a television project "The Bachelor"?

- Need to get into a fairy tale came to me after a severe depression, where I stayed for about a year. Previously, when heard from someone that he had depression, I was not even close to imagining what is behind this word. It turned out the same way that it is neither more nor less - hell.

I'm a very active, outgoing, doing sports, I laugh a lot, but then
suddenly something changed: health deteriorated, unreasonable panic
attacks began - when you absolutely can not control myself. I want to run, hide, and in this state are afraid to go outside. What's out there on the street - as soon as I left the porch, lost consciousness. I sat and cried and cried, but there was no apparent reason. There were thoughts of death - not the desire to die, but it is a comprehensive fear.
There was a period when I was three or four times a day, call an
ambulance because the panic attacks were accompanied by strong pressure
jumps. After a year of such a state each took me to the doctor. At first I resisted, resisted, she was ashamed, but then finally agreed. It saved me. I cut a course of psychotropic medication and slowly began to recover. What happened to me? Plunged into the job, took a lot of different responsibilities, but the men did not feel support. There was a number of men whom I could call to complain, cry, who would listen and help. And I started to turn itself into a man. Slowly giving up on friends, girlfriends, in their lives. I'm constantly thinking about money, it was some kind of obsession, as if anything they could to ensure a peace of mind. Whatever you were not cheerful optimist, this problem can catch any.

The doctor told me that the most common cause of depression and panic attacks in women - loneliness. A single woman has too much to bear on the fragile shoulders. When the number of loving a man, this just does not happen.

Behind I still have a difficult relationship, and civil marriage, but
his depression, I was sure that there is no love, and never in my life
will not be. But both wanted to learn to feel again, somehow come to life. Once I turned on the TV and saw the show "The Bachelor." And the reason I really felt drawn into this tale.

- Erotic Model - is a woman, which in the eyes and the eyes say a lot of nasty things. Do not become one of the causes of depression social stigma your profession?

- Why not, what does not. Shooting - this is what I do not regret it. This is what helps me.
In the first grade, I cropped heads, taken out of school the following
year returned to the same school again in the first class.
Children, remembering my bald, began to mock, so much so that every
change I tried to sit in the closet, hiding from izdevok, and feel
secure only in the presence of a teacher. For seven years, a short way from home to school was a nightmare for me. Then I was transferred to another school, but every time I remembered that, first, the tears flowed a stream. The new school, I changed from the downtrodden into a demure girl who will not allow itself to offend anyone, I have learned  to defend themselves and protect others. But when I started shooting nude, changed not only the external situation, but also internal. I felt its beauty, I realized that men like me that they wish to call. Over time I began to remember the past with a smile.

* In 2009, Eugene Diordiychuk was a girl, on the magazine "Playboy" (Ukraine)

When it was on the TV show, I was sure that there is need romance. The result is convinced that the ratings provide the scandals, swearing, rudeness, and intrigue. Created some images, characters that are completely different life. I probably just had the role of a dirty and horny girls. At least that's how I looked on the screen.

- As far as I know, you're met with Vlad itself. Tell the story of his love.

- I filled out the questionnaire on the casting, pre-stretched long
preparatory work, filming postponed, all the girls were looking forward
to, who will be a bachelor for whom have to contend. In October, the official website of the transfer of a sudden there was information that would be a bachelor Vlad Debryansky.
As soon as I saw him, instantly understood: "Here he is a man of my
dreams!" Most interestingly, two years before the show I was leafing
through a magazine and saw in the gossip columns Natalia Okunskuyu with
another boyfriend. I looked at him and said aloud: "This is a man. I have a husband! "Apparently, the stars I heard. I immediately called the children of the program and thanked them for choosing a bachelor. But then I was disappointed to say: An error occurred, and the hero of the show will be different. Three days later, on the site a photograph of the new bachelor, Francis. I felt a great disappointment.

The contract has been concluded, all the auditions, interviews recorded on tape. Refuse to participate in the show was too late, but not forgotten Vlad. And then I went into the social network "Facebook" and offered him his friendship. He took it and then he wrote me. First, Vlad decided that I was an American actress, we struck up a conversation. I woke up - he was waiting for me online, and we copied the entire day. He woke up - I met him on "Facebook" and wished a good morning. We talked for days, talking about everything, and I was very glad when Vlad decided that we need to see, and came to me.
Project developers have tried to dissuade me, saying, Vlad actually an
aging nerd, and so forth, so I cautiously met him in Kiev. But the reality turned out to be very intelligent, kind, talented man. We spent ten happy days together, and then I went to the project. We have nothing agreed - and what can negotiate two adults (he was forty years old, I'm twenty-nine)?

Vlad I really liked the man, between us there was a strong "chemistry", without which I can not be with a man.
But at the same time, I realized that even if five years of living
together with the previous partner could not give confidence in the
future, ten happy days, too, it is better not deceive ourselves.

As soon as I got on the show, felt very uncomfortable.
Felt like a little girl in the coterie of oligarchs, where there can be
no talk about feelings, but the intrigues and humiliation. Francis I was not raised to fight for him was not interested.
Although Vlad, we were then, as I would have behaved if he was a
bachelor, and knew that could not participate in the show, because
feelings can not flaunt it. I would observe, and then left. Perhaps, then, that in this project, I find my happiness, it seemed to me in a frenzy postdepressivnom. It soon became clear to me that this is impossible in an environment where everything is calculated and kept at manipulation. But be that as it may, if not the project itself, thanks to him I found his story after all.

- You talked about the signs that are sent to you destiny, pointing to Vlad. What are these signs?

- Around a month before our acquaintance with Vlad I had a dream that I
see very tall spruce, and the sky begins the parade of planets. Mad beauty, and I know I'm not in Ukraine. And a sense of inevitability, something from me, not dependent.
When Vlad came to me, we went to bed in the morning, he tells me that
he had a dream - eat, the parade of planets, and even a sense of
inevitability. And I look at it and realize that there is something supernatural.

Or even a moment - we have foretold each other. After the release of the depression, I went to a fortune. I wanted to hear what good is waiting for me in the future.
And I prophesied, that in my life will be a man and becomes the cause
of my departure from the project, because of which I can not go any
further. And Vlad at a party a psychic said that although he needs a woman, that he is not looking for it. She will find him. Its the same thing - do not miss it. He added: "She has ... antenna."

When I left the project, Vlad was very happy. He immediately took us a ticket to America and soon in one of the restaurants  Las Vegas has made me an offer. He had a long talk nice words, but I looked at him and saw how he was worried at the moment. His voice trembled, but he was so sincere, that I realized how lucky I am. Taking out a box with a ring, Vlad asked, I'll marry him. I agreed. In January of this year we were married (see photo).

- When you feel that this is a man of your life?

- Already on the project I had to put it mildly, not at home. Vlad fled to America, but could not work, neither eat nor sleep. He was badly without me. Happened to me the same thing.

Probably, I strongly namuchalis with men in her life, if God decided to reward me well. Vlad - a talented musician, he loved jazz, writes and produces music. He is Ukrainian, but already 17 years living in the States. In Los Angeles, marriage - it is a serious and responsible step. Our men are very spoiled, they normally have a wife and five concubines, and they are covered by nature, instincts. In Los Angeles, men are much more respect for women.

Vlad is also very tired of feminists. To me he likes the fact that I support his passion for guitar. I do not bow to quit music and go into business, as did all of his former girlfriend. And it also supports me. For example, I once again picked up the brush and began painting in oil, like a long time ago. He sees how I paint, and rejoice with me, and I was inspired. Thanks to Vlad I managed to come back to life.

A woman may lose the goods and fatigue problems only if the next man you can trust. When can I close my eyes, take a man of little finger and go after him, blindly trusting the woman is revealed in the present.
Because in most cases it is in a relationship, as in chess - always on
the alert and thinking several moves ahead, what will I do if I give up,
if he refuses to understand. And when those thoughts do not, the woman spreads wings, frees a girl. For the first time in my life next to Vlad, I felt like a woman and a girl at a time. My husband and I own language - cartoon. Because I believe him, and I do not need to keep the person and afraid of what he thinks about me. He loves me and not my way.

- What are you doing in America?

- I teach English, writing a pattern, find a new home, because life in
Las Vegas, restless, his family is better to live in a quiet place. The house we rent, because, contrary to rumors, Vlad is not a millionaire. Here in America, he is respected, loved. At one time he went to study in Boston, his only in that year admitted to college for free, because his music has won them. And, after graduating from college, Vlad was in the U.S..

- I heard that her husband was not just a normal refers to your choice of profession erotic models, and even admire you?

- Yes, he says that is what I do, there is the aesthetics, I was a pleasure to watch. Strange, but here in America, people love me for the qualities for which we have in the country of hate. Once we have with Vlad and his girlfriend, decided to go to a Baptist church. There, a woman came to us from the Diaspora and said that she saw me on the show "The Bachelor."
For the first time in my life I felt ashamed, like this right in the
church to meet with the believers - those who know her opinion about
erotica? But the woman noticed my confusion and smiled: "Do not worry Jack, I'm the same as you! I understand you are very sincere and I wish you luck. And if in this country you need a friend, then at least one you already have. " From these words, I was touched. Because in our country, I often want to burn in hell.

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